As the year comes to a close, we thought that we would give you a head start into the New Year. Our London tantric massage professionals know a lot about you guys and what makes you tick, this much you already know. But they know a hell of a lot more about what they like in the bedroom! And we’re going to tell you!
Not every woman likes this, but if you find one that does, you need to go about it in the right way! The reason most girls don’t like it is mainly because they’ve had a bad experience in the past. Trouble is, it’s hard to get them into the idea again. It’s usually about preparation. Anyway, we could write an entire article on just this, but space is restricted. The fact remains that anal sex can be very rewarding for both partners if it’s done right.
Use a condom first of all. It may not seem like it’s necessary, but if your partner gets an STD, she doesn’t want it in the ass! Loosen thing up a little too beforehand. Try making her come because it relaxes her. You might want to try rimming her too. You’d be amazed at just how much women like this. If she says she doesn’t when you start, then you’ll know that she’s not really a backdoor lover. Leave it alone and move on. Oh, and always start slowly, lube up and listen to her!
Let your fingers do the talking
There actually is a technique here you know. Most guys work out that girls like fingering when they’re in high school. Trouble is, according to our London tantric massage girls, women soon work out at the same time that men don’t really know what to do! It’s not just about slamming your finger in and out. To begin with, you should touch her everywhere except her most intimate area.
You need to let her guide you to a certain extent. By paying attention to how she reacts, you’ll know what’s working and what’s not. Touch her slowly and lightly to begin with, and you’ll feel her pushing harder onto you if she wants it. Oh, and don’t go at it like a DJ scratching records, it doesn’t work!
Missionary isn’t boring
Missionary is not a “boring” sex position. Chances are that it’s the first one you ever tried, and it will always be incorporated into practically every sexual encounter you have in the future. The thing you need to know here is that women love it. They really do. There’s an emotional closeness with missionary that you can’t get in other positions. There are also a number of alternatives. Try playing with her legs more to place more pressure and apply more dominance. You can still look into her eyes and see everything happening, but it’s more fun. Try her legs up and together, behind her neck, on your shoulders etc. Experimentation is the key according to our London tantric massage experts, and we are in total agreement.
Have fun in 2018!